Quando i tuoi genitori ti insegnano fin da bambina che puoi meritare il loro "amore" solo se ti adegui al loro stato d'animo e soddisfi le loro esigenze decidi di essere la figlia perfetta.
Ma il dolore e la solitudine crescono giorno dopo giorno.Cosi', per sopravvivere, spegni il tuo cuore e le tue emozioni.
Nessun genitore dovrebbe violare la fiducia di un bambino privandolo della sua gioia di vivere.Ma tanti genitori sono stati figli che hanno subito lo stesso trattamento, per loro non esiste altro modo di crescere i propri figli.
A 40 anni io invece sto imparando a chiedermi ogni giorno come mi sento.
Spesso non lo so ancora.
When your parents teach you as a child that you deserve their "love" only if you adapt every day your mood to their mood and meets their needs you will choose to be the perfect daughter. But the pain and loneliness grow day after day.Then, in order to survive, you turn off your heart and your emotions. No parent should violate the innocent trust of a child by depriving him of his joy of living.
But many parents were children who have undergone the same treatment, for them there is no other way to grow up their sons.
Being 40 years I'm still learning every day asking myself how I feel. Often I do not know it.
When your parents teach you as a child that you deserve their "love" only if you adapt every day your mood to their mood and meets their needs you will choose to be the perfect daughter. But the pain and loneliness grow day after day.Then, in order to survive, you turn off your heart and your emotions. No parent should violate the innocent trust of a child by depriving him of his joy of living.
But many parents were children who have undergone the same treatment, for them there is no other way to grow up their sons.
Being 40 years I'm still learning every day asking myself how I feel. Often I do not know it.
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